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The Couples' Counselor I see with my wife places her notebook beneath a pillow when she's not writing. Honestly, that makes them much more distracting. I understand taking notes, and I wouldn't try to read writing upside down across the room ordinarily, but the extra flourish of hiding them makes me, probably unnecessarily, worried about what she's writing.

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I saw a therapist for a few months who wrote her notes during the session *while looking directly at me*. I understand what she was trying to do, but it made me really uncomfortable.

My current therapist writes notes during the session, but I don't feel it interferes with our conversation. I still feel he is very present and not at all preoccupied. And I would love to see those notes!

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